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rejected by eharmony

Eharmony Rejected my cry for attention without even asking for a picture

Saturday, March 12, 2005

My personality profile feedback what should I say?

This completes your Personality Profile. This report was created as a tool for personal reflection and can be of great use in examining your values and attitudes. Research has proven that this Profile is usually extremely accurate. However, some people may feel that it does not precisely reflect their particular personality traits.
The Relationship Questionnaire responses that are used to create this profile are separate from the responses used to match you with other eHarmony users. This profile is for your personal use only, and will not be used by the matching engine in any way.
If you have any questions or comments about the Personality Profile, please enter them in the space provided below.
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My personality profile Pt. 5

n general, human beings are defined by their needs and individuals by their wants. Your emotional wants are especially important when establishing with whom you are compatible. While answering the Relationship Questionnaire you established a pattern of basic, subconscious wants. This section of the report was produced by analyzing those patterns. Our wants change as we mature and obtain our life goals. You may find it valuable to revisit this section periodically to see how your wants have changed.
You may want:
  • Recognition for your loyalty.
  • Time away occasionally--you value your privacy.
  • No flattery or shallow praise.
  • Frequent appreciation.
  • Facts and data before making decisions relating to others.
  • Others to present their ideas and information in a logical order.
  • Limited socializing, especially with new people.
  • A supportive environment where you do not have to display great emotion.
  • Identification with your social group.
  • Tried, established ways of doing things.
  • To feel safe and secure in social situations.

My personality profile Pt. 4

Following are some of the specific strengths and/or personal characteristics that you bring to a relationship. These may form the foundations of many of your friendships and dealings with other people. Some will seem obvious, but you may be surprised by others. Take a moment to reflect on each and consider what role it may have played in your past successes, and even failures.
  • You tend to enjoy life and share that enjoyment with others.
  • You are socially poised and people-oriented.
  • You are usually enthusiastic about activities and planning.
  • You are very respectful of the needs and wants of other people.
  • You are excellent at listening to your partner.
  • You are optimistic and tend to make others feel good about themselves.
  • You have an excellent sense of humor and tend to see humor in events spontaneously.
  • You are generally good at cooling down tense situations in a relationship.
  • You tend to bring feelings of security and stability to a relationship.
  • You are skilled at finding "win-win" solutions when conflicts arise.
  • You like to gather facts and think things over before offering a strong opinion.

My personality profile Pt. 3

Many different factors determine the communication styles with which you are most comfortable. Some individuals thrive on the challenge of pointed criticism, while others are at their best in a nurturing environment where criticism is offered as a suggestion for improvement. Each of us has a unique set of requirements and preferences. Below is a list of communication styles that will mesh well with your own. Having a partner who understands and practices these traits is important to your long-term happiness.
  • Talk about expectations.
  • Take time during explanations.
  • Share specific ideas to carry out an action.
  • Be stimulating, fun-loving, and fast-moving.
  • Support ideas for change with facts, figures and logic.
  • Keep the conversation at the discussion level, rather than confrontation.
  • Be sincere and use a tone of voice that shows sincerity.
  • Allow time to ask questions.
  • Offer opinions and ideas that are stimulating.
  • Be prepared to listen to many stories.
  • Leave plenty of time for socializing and relating.

My personality profile Pt. 2

Each person has a unique way of communicating. We use a combination of body language, facial expression, verbal tone and word choice to share ourselves with others. The following statements offer a look at the natural behavior you bring to an interpersonal relationship.
  • One of your great strengths is your ability to communicate and talk readily. Since all strengths may be overused at times, you may sometimes talk too much.
  • You have a natural, outgoing style that some have labeled as the "natural salesperson." You are generally likable, talkative and socially assertive. Your primary intent is convincing or persuading people.
  • You are a natural communicator. You love to talk, offer jokes and make sure that everyone is having a good time. This trait is especially evident at functions and outings.
  • You can generate enthusiasm in yourself and in other people. Your enthusiasm, often contagious, involves many people in a social activity who might not ordinarily become involved.
  • You show sympathy to the feelings and needs of others. Your natural empathy style may draw others to you.

My personality profile Pt. 1


Personality Profile
By analyzing your answers to the Relationship Questionnaire we have created the following Personality Profile. Everyone has a set of subconscious wants and desires that drive their choices and attitudes. By asking you questions about a wide range of emotional issues, this report has established general patterns in your values.
Some of the following information may seem inaccurate or incomplete. Remember, that this profile is a snapshot of your personality at a specific moment. It is not intended as an in-depth analysis of your complete being, but as a tool to aid in self-discovery.
  • You have to be with people. This extends into the need to gain popularity, achieve social recognition and influence those people around you. The "bottom-line" is a strong people orientation.
  • You have a strong feeling of optimism, considered favorably by most people around you. Your perception is that the bottle is half-full rather than half-empty.
  • You have a strong sense of humor. You usually know when to lighten a difficult situation, amuse and entertain people.

The eharmony personality introduction


Personality Profile
Mate selection is a highly complex task. Fundamental to your success at this task is an extensive awareness of who you are. This report is designed to help you get to know yourself at a deeper level.
You may be surprised by the results of this report. Once you have had a chance to thoughtfully consider its findings, you will begin to see its accuracy. We suggest that you read through all the sections carefully, discuss them with friends and family, and decide which points are the most important and helpful.
The ultimate goal of this report is to give you information about yourself so that you will be better equipped to select the right marriage partner. Whether we are talking about you, or the kind of person with whom you can best get along, we want to assist you in selecting someone with whom you can be happy.
We also give you an opportunity to share this profile with your matches. Once you've read through the profile and considered it's comments, you may return to this page and choose the button below marked "Share with Matches".
You will be able to reveal your Personality Profile to specific matches whenever you like. Remember, this is an optional feature. You should wait until you are comfortable letting a particular match see this in-depth analysis of your personality.

The eharmony rejection notice

Unable To Match You At This Time
eHarmony is based upon a complex matching system developed through extensive testing of married individuals. One of the requirements for it to work successfully is for participants to fall into our rigorously defined profiles. If we aren't able to match a user well using these profiles, the most considerate approach is to inform them early in the process.

We are so convinced of the importance of creating compatible matches to help people establish and enjoy happy, lasting relationships that we choose not to provide service rather than risk an uncertain match.

Unfortunately, we are not able to make our profiles work for you. Our matching system is not suitable for about 20% of potential users, so 1 in 5 people simply would not benefit from our service. We hope that you understand that we regret our inability to provide service for you at this time.

You can still receive your free personality profile by clicking here.